Feel like im crazy

[Surviving]

My partner’s ex always tels him he shouldnt go in her house. I dont feel comfortable him going in either house either but last night she wanted to talk to him but he had to go in. He said no becasuw i dont like it she kicked off. Told me he should be able to go in her house when he likes. He stuck up for her and said i caused the trouble by stopping him going in

[LozzyX]

Hi Surviving

This is triangulation, the ex is a third party … Your partner may feed off the attention and fuss this is causing. Ignore his ex, your boundaries that you and your partner agree on are what counts as if he then crosses those boundries deal with that with him ,not her. If he is breaking your boundaries he has no respect for them , if he cares be would at least discuss with you – without her involved – to understand why it upsets you. If he often does things that upset you and doesn’t give any consideration to your feelings that is a red flag.

[Surviving]

He dont care. He just says its all my fault. I didnt do anything. His ex told him she wants him to go in and he said no because i dont like it. She is having a go at me down the phone and he says im pathetic and insecure

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