Feel like losing it

[Confused123]

So his sending me long texts tonight , half of which don’t get or understand but is making me paranoid, making me think / feel low of myself , it’s like his warning me , intimidate me to make me feel scared , I ff stupid to let police know , maybe I’m exgarrating, think need to discuss with my solicitor that I need to take non mol out of do I block him , just unblock him
To show solicitors as evidence of mind games , has got people of fb to contact me I think , took my pic of what’s app to stop his friends looking and now is sending messages of abuse who do I think I am posting a diamond pic

[KIP.]

Ring 101. Report it immediately. Tell them how you are terrified for your life.
Use this evidence to get a non mol.
Use the non mol to get legal aid.
You feel stupid because you’ve been let down in the past. This might be an unpleasant experience but try to gain something from it. These abusers just can’t help themselves.
Talk to your solicitor. (detail removed by Moderator) This can help you…….

[Anonymous]

Hi confused123

Ring the police and get this documented
You do not have to live in fear like this
Hes trying to scare you to be silent

Use your power and do whats right for u

Speak up hun hugs x

[Confused123]

hi ladies

am going to police tonight to log it all and am going to ask for support to get non mol as his just built that same fear in me again , told my parents this afternoon and they said they would take me to the police with them there to support me. My dad is furious at ex that he is threating me and got me upset . MY parents support has actually touched me as felt so alone this week. JUst wish this feeling of feeling stupid would go away, i feel like as if i am overthinking and it snot that bad, but even though some of his text dont make sense , he has made clear him and his family coming after me

[Confused123]

not sure if bluff or not

[older lady]

Women’s Aid will always tell us to take threats to ourselves and our family seriously. Even if he didn’t carry out his threat, think what it could do, how it might change the way you can live and the choices you make. Having to look over your shoulder all the time is no way to live, and the anxiety will affect your health. You deserve to be treated with respect by the police. Only in hindsight could someone say this was a bluff. The police don’t have a crystal ball, so this threat is evidence of further domestic abuse, and it is in your interests to get it recorded. Take care. xx

[Peaceful Pig]

Hey confused, sorry you’re experiencing these threats. I can’t add much more than others have already advised but sending love and strength your way. Keep believing in yourself and report everything, you don’t feel this fear for no reason. On a positive note it is likely a sign that he thinks things won’t go in his favour which is why he’s intimidating you. Hang on in there and use this to help you xx

[Anonymous]

Hi, Its still classed as a threat. Keep posting on here if something annoying you. We stick together & help & support eachother…Might be worthwhile blocking number xx

[Missssy]

Hi love,

Please do go ahead and report this – the threats are severe whether or not they are a ‘bluff’ or if there is intent behind them – it’s still malicious communication and Designed to let you know he is ‘in charge’.

Pull the rug out from under this pathetic excuse for a human and report him ASAP. Don’t hang about thinking it is ‘just a threat’ the fact that he’s making these threats prove that he has a very twisted mind. The police will understand and hopefully take it seriously and take action. I understand that you have been let down by them before and I’m so sorry about that but please do not rule them out because of a bad experience they could really help you!!

Don’t mean to go on but I just don’t want you to be there feeling frightened. Take care Hun xx

[Confused123]

Hi Ladies

Thank you for all your support it really has helped me and encouraged me to report him, still feel stupid for reporting him but did anyway, the officer was actually really good, just got to wait for him to be called in or arrested if he refuses and will be warned not to harrass me, am going to look in to getting a non mol as i knwo that is the only thing that will stop him calling me, stupidly he is still calling me this morning, am just doign my best to ignore, not blocking him yet as want polcie tossee how he hasnt stop trying to contact me . If any one has advice on how to apply for non mol please let me know, polcie werent helpfulin letting me know how to apply, have to do myself as cant afford to pay to have it done

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