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    • #169079
      FreeAsABirdxx
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      I found out that he is selling the marital home for soooo much more than what the house was valued for during the financial order (he valued it online!). I got so little from the divorce, i cant even pay rent unless im in another relationship. Seeing it online and for that disgusting amount of money, whilst im here suffering. How could a judge think that was ok?! Its completely destroyed me

    • #169084
      Marmalade
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      Hi Freeasabirdxx
      It can be very upsetting to see an ex doing well when we are still suffering. It just seems so unfair.
      If there is now a big disparity and your order was recent, you could go back to your solicitor and ask for their advice on anything you can do. This might be tricky if you agreed the valuation or didn’t challenge it at the time of the order, but your solicitor will know the answer and be able to give you advice.
      Think about the time that has elapsed. If it has been a reasonably long time since your divorce and he got the home, then property prices may have increased in your area in that time. But if you have only just got divorced and the house price is very different then that is something to discuss with the solicitor and get advice on.
      Also, he could have put the house on the market at an unrealistic price. Look at the local market and see the sort of prices that type of house sells for. He may get nothing close to what he wants for it.
      Good luck.

    • #169091
      FreeAsABirdxx
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      I always knew it was valued very low, he will get the price he’s asking for sure. I couldnt argue the (detail removed by moderator) because he wouldnt let me see the kids until i signed it. But there is no evidence. Solicitors tell me (detail removed by moderator). But i have enough friends who have been through the financial abuse and (detail removed by moderator) it seems. I would just lose all the money i have left.

    • #169092
      FreeAsABirdxx
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      Tbh what hurts the most is that we can’t even (detail removed by moderator). Like.. how does that work.. i just dont get it, its so unfair. I have to live in a ridiculously expensive part of the country to be close to my kids schools etc, but also my abuser. None if it is fair, theres no justice

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