Getting justice

[Minimrs]

So mÿ ex and I have been separated for (detail removed by Moderator) years. The police couldn’t do anything about the abuse to me and my kids when we first separated due to lack of evidence. How can i get some sort of justice for what he did to us. He hurt my children and emotionally abuse me and raped me. What can I do? I feel I need some sort of justice before I can move on in life.

[Needtoclarify]

Hi Minimrs

I am so sorry to hear what you’ve had to endure. I hope you are doing the best u can for you and your children, thank you for sharing your experience, it’s so unfair.

Did you file a police report and does your ex still have access to your children? If you actually filed a report, this is the beginning of your justice.

I have read on these forums how outcomes with police vary depending on regions and training within the various police units. Have u considered going elsewhere and appealing for further investigation?

I hope you get the justice and peace you seek. Keep posting, there may be other ladies with better advice than I can offer. Take care x

[Shura]

Hey,i feel so sorry for you and what you and your children had gone through. I might be wrong but would say that all victims share the same feeling, especially when we start to get that understanding of what is going on or what has happened. it is so unfair that we as abuse victims have to have the proof of abuse. Never in my life id think ill have to go through messages or record the conversations to prove that he hasnt been good and id have to do it against someone who at some point i loved or at l thought i did at that time. I think piece for ourselves is something more important as legal justice is not always possible, unfortunately. My justice is getting full custody of my child. Piece is something i still struggle with from time to time but it has gotten much better. Moral justice, that will come, believe me. Once your children will begin to understand and see the real situation, they will slowly distance themselves from him, it might not be justice you seek but my guess is he will always be sad, miserable and lonely whilst you will thrive and be radiant at some point and be happy as you deserve to be x*x

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