After a couple of bad relationships, I have been left with a fear of men, not terrified but really don’t like having them near me. I don’t even like sitting on the sofa at work next to them. How do I get past this? My male colleagues are great guys who I have known for years but I hate to always feel uncomfortable. I’m about to go onto further education so I’ll be in a classroom with guys. I don’t want to have to tell them to stay away from me. I was in furst aid training and had a male practice the himelec (sorry can’t spell) on me and it totally freaked me out. How do I get past this?