Give me strength

[Phoenix31]

can anyone just give me some strength in this? I’ve cut contact with him I know that he’s a terrible man, abusive, manipulative, dangerous, causes harm to women both physically and emotionally but still I want to contact him. I want to reach out. And I hate myself for it.

[Lisa]

Hi Phoenix31,

Welcome to the forum and thank you for sharing with us. I hope you find the forum a safe and supportive place to be with others who understand.

If you feel like you are in need of some additional support, you could chat to a Women’s Aid worker in confidence via our Live Chat service. They won’t tell you what to do, but can discuss your situation and signpost you to other support that’s relevant for you. You can access the chat service here.

You may also find Bloom helpful. Bloom offer free online courses created by or in partnership with therapists specialising in trauma. These courses can be accessed in your own time and at your own pace and cover topics such as trauma, abuse and boundaries.

Do keep posting to let us know how you’re getting on.

Best wishes,

Lisa
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