So great to hear you are in a good place @footballfan1. I remember doing the freedom programme and thinking, “it’s not me, I’m not mad, he really is an abuser”. Like you say it gives clarity.
I believe education and peer support from other survivors are a perfect prescription for healing. I’m so proud of have far you’ve come, you and the kids keep healing, keep growing, and as cliche as it sounds, “go live your best lives”. Xx