Hate isnt strong enough

[nbumblebee]

Oh gosh Im so mad i cant think.
My (detail removed by moderator) someone i love with all i have has been rushed to hospital ive been with them all day. Got home and husband is fowl. Moody grumpy not talking and being an arse.
Yes hes been home all day yes he had to clean up make his own lunch he refused dinner till i got back afyer (detail removed by moderator) hours at hospital i had to cook!!!
I dont get how someone could be so selfiah so mean. Im so angry

[Bananaboat]

Sorry to hear this and hope your family member will be ok. Remember this feeling, this is the real him. Have you seen the gifs/memes that say – if they’re not there for you when you’re crying or dealing with loss, death or fear of some kind, they don’t care about you. You’re living that right now. You’re allowed to be angry and allowed to expect help and support.

[Twisted Sister]

Well done for seeing it! For seeing who he is, someone who isn’t there for you, and that’s an awful realisation. I am very sorry that you are experiencing this.

Warmest wishes

ts

[nbumblebee]

It has gotten worse.
Another day at hospital and i come home to a mouthful of cruel nasty things how i need to remember that he is also my family even my teenage aon told him to stop.
I am broken beyond belief.

[Hereforhelp]

I’m so sorry you’re husband has decided not to support you, that is so cruel. You have every right to feel angry, he has Been acting ‘nice’ for so long yet when you go to see sick loved one, because it’s not about him he is resentful. It is insane isn’t it as I best if it was the other way around you would be supportive of him.

As TS said, you see him for who he is, trust what he is showing you Nbumblebee as this is who he is.

Hugs HFH ❤️

[Stargazing1]

Wishing you wasn’t dealing with all this awful behaviour from your other half @nbumblebee . Sounds very very terribly selfish of your other half to be giving you so much grief when you’re visiting someone who’s in hospital. The behaviour is diabolical and pathetic. You deserve so much better but you will already know this . What gives someone the right to speak to another person like you have been spoken too . There’s no telling these people though because they don’t see or even think what they do is wrong. I am so truly sorry to hear everything you have had to deal with . You definitely do deserve much better than this . Please keep yourself safe .

[nbumblebee]

Thanx for your comments.
I even sent my hisband a photo of how poorly this family member is and yet he still moaned.
But as the week went on my husband got better was supportive for a bit but still tried to tell me id be better off not visiting so much!!! But this didnt last long and again he has gone back to moaning yes the house is a mess no we dont have much food but instead of moaning he could help? No no he cant!!
I am also having to face someone who wasnt nice to me as a kid and its been so hard to see him again i even had a small panic attack at the thought of it.
Life is just so hard right now i just wanna scream why why cant my husband just support me this once what have i ever done thats so wrong that i dont deserve love at a tough tough time. X

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