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2nd August 2018 at 12:48 am #62220
banks
Participanthe came to where i live because he uses the facilitates and he is allowed to
after seeing me
i got call from blocked ID
and then email from his new email account
i had friends with me
but couldn’t help but cry and shake and i was so scared
why stalk and harass me i don’t know what to do anymore i think i will have to go to the police
he is ruining my life i am shattered and shaken and unable to work or function 🙁 -
2nd August 2018 at 10:15 am #62223
HopeLifeJoy
ParticipantYes absolutely, report the incident to the police, stalking and harassment is illegal. It will make you feel safer once you got the police on your side. Because he might come back and harass you some more. Then it’s handy if he is already reported and on the police’s files.
Maybe the police will forbide him to go near you in the future.
Breathe deeply and get a friend to stay with you to comfort you until your body has calmed down. Big hug to you, breathe deeply. -
2nd August 2018 at 10:24 am #62225
Tiffany
ParticipantReport him and keep reporting him.
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2nd August 2018 at 1:20 pm #62235
banks
Participantthanks ladies, I spoke to people in charge and the security will be upped and a friend is staying with me tonight. the worst part is, the thrill of it all, once i am no longer scared, is fuelling my addiction to him – today i do not hurt or cry or miss him because i feel like he is still a part of my life. I hate that my body reacts this way and i worry I will never be able to move on with him around.
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2nd August 2018 at 1:37 pm #62237
KIP.
ParticipantI remember the ‘thrill’ of it all but it wasn’t so thrilling when I was brutally assaulted. We minimise their behaviour. Just remember to stay safe x
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3rd August 2018 at 3:06 am #62264
banks
ParticipantHe’s been around all day today, too and I had to hide and you’re right KIP, sorry to hear what you have been through x I don’t feel a thrill anymore I just feel scared to the point I keep whispering in my room, worrying he can somehow hear me. If anything, today made me feel stronger and that maybe I can get through the pain and come out safer on the other side. If I ever had any doubts, his actions made me finally realise he has no consideration for my health and well being and only cares about himself and tries to control me.
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