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Hi All
This is my first post which i think is one
Tiny to step to dealing what has been
Happening and has happened.So recently he has stopped being violent towards me but i know this wont last forever and it
Will happen again but was wondering does
anyone else go throw these stages.Also I live with his family and his mum is
Also like an a bully. I am not allowed to bath
Every day because she beileves in bathing
(detail removed by Moderator) a week. I am also pregnant and wake
Up dripping with sweat.Today we went out but he keep having a go at me saying am look at (detail removed by Moderator) men.I am (detail removed by Moderator) and he is
Very racist.I am not sure what the point of this post but
It feels good to just write it and down and
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Hi Supersad,
Welcome to the forum and thank you for sharing with us. It is great to see you have had replies to your other post so I hope you find the forum a supportive place with others who understand about what you are going through.
If you feel like you are in need of some additional support, you could chat to a Women’s Aid worker in confidence via our Live Chat service (weekdays 10am – 4pm and 10am – 12pm weekends). They won’t tell you what to do, but can discuss your situation and signpost you to other support that’s relevant for you. You can access the chat service here: https://chat.womensaid.org.uk/
You could also contact your local domestic abuse service for ongoing emotional and practical support with a safety plan: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/domestic-abuse-directory/
Do keep posting to let us know how you’re getting on. It can really help to offload how you are feeling.
Best wishes,
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Hi Supersad
I replied to you in your previous post! Apart from what’s just happened, I hope you’re well!
This could be the calm before the storm. Usually once abuse turns physical it’s very rare that it won’t happen again. It usually esculates and builds up gradually over a period of time.
I think you should try and speak to someone professional at women’s aid or maybe try speaking to your midwife!!
I am new to this too but usually hanging around on here so if you need to chat you can message me. Big hugs x
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Hi lisa
Having a really bad day. He hurt me yesterday.
I cant stop crying. I want to leave but i don’t know where to go.
Its so hard he keeps taking my phone and ita risky to make a phone call. I dont when he is coming naclto the room. He takes my cards but i dont have money on it. I don’t work he wont let me work.Please i need help.
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Are you in a safe place now suoersad?
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Can we do anything here? Do you know if you press 999 on your phone but cannot speak then you can dial 555 into the phone and the police will come. I think you should supersad. This is horrible for you hun. X*x
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Hi lisa
Having a really bad day. He hurt me yesterday.
I cant stop crying. I want to leave but i don’t know where to go.
Its so hard he keeps taking my phone and ita risky to make a phone call. I dont when he is coming naclto the room. He takes my cards but i dont have money on it. I don’t work he wont let me work.Please i need help.
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Supersad are you ok? You sound desperate, if he’s hurting while you are pregnant then sadly it’s not going to get much better probably only worse.
Could you make up an excuse to need to see your GP? Maybe then you could access some other help. Do you mind me asking where are your own family? Could they help.
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Please ring the police, this isn’t okay, not going to beat round the bush about it, you need help and you need it now so ring the police!!! This is a dire situation you are in and it’s a high risk situation so you have to get out love, you just do. Call the police!!!
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This is just awful. It actually breaks my heart imagining what he’s putting this pregnant woman through. This sounds like he’s holding her against her will and withholding money and her basic human rights. This is too sad xx
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This is an emergency and you need to call the police and ask them to take you somewhere safe because you absolutely will not go back there. I hope I am making myself extremely clear here. There is no other option. You can read up on abuse later, you can get help after you are out of harm’s way but right now you are squarely in harm’s way and it is coming for you, big time. GET OUT! You are clearly not okay. And yes, of course if family can help please reach out to them. Don’t feel bad or guilty or whatever just reach out to them. If you can’t do it for you, do it for you baby because these people are monsters!!!
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Please, please phone the police. If he doesn’t want the baby who knows what might happen. You need to be looking after yourself for the sake of your baby, he/she will be sensing your stress. Dont normalise his behaviour either- nice men don’t hit pregnant women. You need to get help ASAP
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How are you today supersad? X
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