He threatened

[Anonymous]

To pay me a visit when I wouldn’t give in to going back to him …saying I owed him apologies and its clearly not sinking in so he will have to come to my home… were this intimidating me? X

[Twisted Sister]

Yes Icandothis, that is definitely very threatening. He has no right to ‘pay you a visit’.

‘No’, means no, and you can call the police and explain what he’s said after you telling him you don’t want him back, and they will likely advise you that if he turns up you should call 999 and they will respond to remove him.

You shouldn’t have to live your life feeling wrong for saying no, or face intimidation because he doesn’t agree with your decision.

He doesn’t have to agree, but he does have to accept and its not your job to help him to accept it, but perhaps the police can.

warmest wishes

ts

[Hereforhelp]

I agree with TS, can you ring the police and tell them? He is threatening you with turning up. You have said no and he is choosing to ignore your request and has threatened to turn up. He understands alright, he is deciding what he wants from you… an apology for what? For ending an abusive relationship.. he doesn’t get to bully his way back demanding apologies from you…
❤️

[Shura]

HI, be very careful with threats like that, take them seriously and believe he will one day. Speak to the police. Your house is your safe place and he has no right to be there. Apologies are coming from heart not beaten out of people .
Its 100% intimidation x*x

[StrongLife]

Threats are never ok.

They do all sorts of things to induce fear. They all seem to go by the same rule book to.

[StrongLife]

Paying a visit (and adding in toxic abuse) is something I experienced – unannounced drop in with him leaving saying swear words – typical behaviour

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