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Some horrendous things about his ex wife who is also bringing up his (removed by moderator) he said she needed sectioning and had a mental problem. But….he still didn’t mind her cleaning his home and asking for lifts…when I had a conversation with her she said how when he were dropping (removed by moderator) of at hers if she would of been up for it he would of gone upstairs with her… she also got a non molestation order in him and got him out of there mortgaged home he said she got 1 police log and planned it all and ran straight to the solicitors he completely messed with my mind said he could see my (removed by moderator)….she warned me get away from him or you will need help…. she said he’s so charming I believe he were mad he took his (removed by moderator) to bed he’s in his (removed by moderator)xx
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Hi Beautiful Angel,
I know my ex use to call his children’s mum mad … Looking back its easy to see there is no smoke without fire!
People generally don’t say things about people unless there is some truth in it
We live and learn!
I hope you are happy and safe now
Sending you continued love and support
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My ex told me things about all his exes. One acused him of violence but she had provoked him, one stole all his money, and others. I believed his reasons, if only I had seen them for the red flags they were! I wonder what he says about me, probably telling everyone I cheated on him as that’s what he thinks.
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Mine too. Not just ex partners but all the ex friends too. Although he’d still turn on the charm if we ever bumped into those ex friends. It took me a while to realise that the way to spot it he was lying was easy. If his mouth was moving he was lying.
When I left he promised he’d turn everyone against me and had a pretty good go. Luckily he’d shown his aggressive side in public just a couple of times but enough to make the people who matter to me question things he said. I’m sure that others have his ear though. That’s a big down side to social media too.
When I look back it’s sometimes hard to forgive myself for not seeing through him. But I know how convincing and manipulative he can be, and I was asking the wrong questions, like ‘why would he say that if it wasn’t true’ not realizing everything was about control, and part of controlling me was isolating me from others, and making me feel sorry for him. I can forgive others who believe him and turn against me because I remember how convincing he can be. The gossip and lies he may or may not be spreading are kind of like possible side effects to a life saving medication (leaving him).GR
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