Help me understand this…

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Hi all, it’s been a while since i posted anything on here. I’ve had an extremely difficult year and am currently going through a divorce which is taking forever.
I’ve been in a situation where ex husband is refusing to leave the family home and says I should go. We have two children age (age removed by Moderator) and (age removed by Moderator).
There have been many reasons for me ending my (timeframe removed by Moderator) year relationship/ marriage. Financial (gambling) and emotional abuse have been the main factors.
In all this chaos we had an event (timeframe removed by Moderator) where we were altogether for a meal which was unavoidable as a family. Far from ideal. During this time my eldest spoke at the table about something and ex husband turned round and said “I can tell you’re on your period”.
This made me feel really uncomfortable and it isn’t the first time he’s said it to her.
She did turn round and acknowledged it was wrong for him to say that to her.

What I would like to know is would any of you tolerate this and how would you deal with it? He won’t leave so I’m on the verge of packing bags and going to my parents with the girls but by doing this he’s got what he wants. He mostly works away but I’m local to where we live and school so this is impacting me more than him.

My relationship with my eldest is very fraught but I know she’s lashing out at me etc and hurting because I’m the closest person to her.

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