He’s got hold of my E mail and new phone number

[White Rose]

Sorry I need to rang. I’m absoluty livid!!!!
Somehow, and I have no idea how, he’s managed to get my safe email address. I suspect it’s from a very vulnerable younger family member who he’s conned. He has an email contact for me already left over from previous times but I choose when to look at that and its not often and only him and a relative who’s “too friendly” with him use it. Everyone else has my other address. So he’s now got my every day email address AND my phone number. He’s emailed me several times and I’ve just deleted them until I finally found I can change the settings so anything from his email addresses is automatically deleted and I never have to see it. I’ve blocked his phone number too -again – had to change it previously as I was getting calls and texts all the time plus it was a contract in his name.
I feel violated again and vulnerable and though I know I’ve blocked him I know he’s found out something about me I wanted to be private. (detail removed by moderator)
I am so mad!!!!
Why can’t he leave me alone and crawl back under his stone?

[phantasmagorical]

Hey White Rose, I can understand the feeling of being violated; he seems to have been sneaky and disregarded your wishes with how he’s obtained your contact info.
I suspect he hasn’t mentioned what exactly he wants returned to him in order to keep you guessing, and to be intentionally vague so as to provoke a response out of you.
I think I know the email feature you’re talking about, it’s like you can set up some contacts to go directly to the trash folder – I’ve used this before for spam. xx

[White Rose]

The one I’ve used is one that deletes on receipt – better than going into the spam folder. I just wish it would send him a message that I’d blocked him 😈
I’m still angry but at least I’ve not had any more contact!

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