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[Thatgirl]

I left my husband (detail removed by moderator) ago. And I am still having to deal with harrassment. I report the emails that I am sent as advised by a solicitor. I am less stressed and anxious now as I am beginning to take back control. It has been exhausting and I am sure it will continue to be. Until I am truly free from him. The financial abuse has escalated now we are selling the family home and I feel he is now totally losing control of me and is upping his game. I will try to remain blank and non emotional in any way I correspond with him as if I was to react any differently this would only fuel an onslaught and barrage of emails of demands and put downs. It is so hard having to live this way. I hope one say soon it will come to a close and I can breathe once more

[KIP.]

Hi there, (detail removed by moderator) years is a long time for this harrassment to continue. When you say you report them, do you mean to the police because that’s probably the only way it will stop. Can you delete your email address and Use a third party for all contact that needs to be done for financial stuff. I managed to get through this part even with bail conditions not to contact or come near. I used my solicitor for everything. Even then He would write the most horrendous stuff and looking back it makes me angry that a solicitor would allow this to happen and I’d have to read his abuse via them so I’d absolutely make sure your solicitor isn’t retraumatising you by letting this process allow further abuse. Any contact is toxic and while he can contact you, his harrassment will continue. So zero contact in place to prevent years and years of this continuing. It’s exhausting dealing with them and you’re right about them cutting that final tie, they just can’t do it so yes his abuse will escalate as he sees you slipping away from his control X just keep going and putting distance between you x

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