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Since I recently started all of the legal action against my ex his family have tried to make my life hell. My kids live with his family member, and since I started legal action against him she has ‘suggested’ that my visits with my kids are reduced to half of what they are now. There is a court order that states I see them (removed by moderator) so I don’t even think she has legal right to do this to me. His family have always facilitated his abuse of me and now that I am fighting back against him they are all trying to control me in any way they can. He is a child sex offender (removed by moderator) yet they still take his side, it’s beyond ridiculous!
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My ex & his family were so tight knit, nothing could penetrate, if your face didn’t fit you wern’t getting in! He told lies about me and they all, they are a huge family (removed by moderator) plus immediate family members, stood together against me. It was so horrible, I am so pleased to be out of that poisonous vicious family. They sound like your ex’s. Well done for starting the legal action, that is excellent & so much the right thing to do. I think that you need to get your head around that this is just another challenge for you to deal with and deal with it you will. You need to stand your ground with your rightful access to your kids. Can you go 100% with every family member? Gray Rock with those you have to have contact with?
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They fully accept he is a child abuser, yet refuse to believe he abused me. It’s insane. He’s got them wrapped round his finger, even to the point where they give him large sums of money coz he can’t stop spending all his benefits. Then they say I have to pay it back. Me?! They’re all off their rockers!
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Kitty you are so much better off out of this. His family sound so much like my ex’s family. All crooked, living on the edge of the law, wouldn’t think twice about ripping someone off. I don’t think they had much real decency or purity in the whole family. He was at the center of it, the lies that he told them about me and the resulting cold shoulder I got was shocking to me. I thought that I was nice, kind and decent towards them, in the whole time we were together they didn’t really give me the time of day. It sounds like your ex’s family are a bunch of secretive scroungers, keeping their heads in the sand about their precious child abuser relative. They just cannot face reality, its too shameful so they would rather ignore it and blame other people, ie. you. So he’s a child abusing manipulative liar on benefits, Mmmmm what a catch! X*X
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He is never going to be able to have a normal family life ever again. He will grow old alone. I think he realises that, which is why he has been so horrid since he found out I was in a relationship. He can’t handle it. When my kids are older and they are told what crimes he commited I doubt they will want to know him either. My oldest already hates him and refuses to see him.
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Yes, and his wider family are shielding him through ignorance and taking the easy route which is sticking together & blaming others. Your ex sounds the same as most of the abusers on here, one day they will find all their wrong doing has caught up with them. They will look around & see what they have, ie. probably very bad physical health, nobody who really genuinely loves them, possibly a partner but she will be with him due to fear or manipulation. They are nothing without us, we are everything without them. XXXXX
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