His issues are always worse than mine

[Sabel]

Hi

im finding more and and more that if I’m halving a bad day then my husband is having a worse one.  I came home from work early as I was feeling unwell and my husband has went into the worse mood because his work is stressful, the neighbours are annoying him, the kids are acting up – you name it then it’s bothering him.  I find this every time I’m unwell or having a bad day – he resorts to these moods and I don’t know what to do – its as if he feels he has to remind me that my day can’t be as bad as his

[Anonymous]

<p style=”text-align: left;”>This isn’t exactly the same but when I was unwell or recovering from a surgery, my ex would complain about how it affected him. He would also use the fact that he’d had a bad day to avoid conversations where I’d try to tell him how he’d hurt me</p>

[StrongLife]

I hear about his financial stuff which is now irrelevant to me.

He would put on “fake caring” then be the opposite the next day on his terms. Lots of stress, yelling and screaming. It was roller coaster.

[Bananaboat]

Oh yes, how dare you be in any way better or more deserving than them. My ex’s job was harder than mine, he was always more tired then me, his problems were always bigger or more important and so on. You can’t have anything, even sickness more than them. Hope you feel better soon x

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