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      Pineapplepie
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      How do stay strong when they just start on you and blame you for everything.

      how do you stay strong when they are telling you how bad of a person you are and everything you have done wrong to them, although you know it’s exaggerated and twisted.

      how do stay strong when they’ve been horrible to you but they won’t hear anything about themselves

      how do stay strong when they fire questions at you but whatever you say will be the wrong answer

      how do you stay strong when you know you may say something that will upset them

      how do you stay strong when you have children with them

      how do you stay strong when they come across the nice guy in public

      how do you stay strong when you’re scared they might hit you or break your things

      how do you stay strong when I’ve defended him but I know I’m lying to myself because I secretly agree with them, but I’m so embarrassed

      how do stay strong when you know your trapped

      How do you stay strong when you hear of others that have left and are having a great life now they’re free, i read things that I could just go, but he’s got me in so much debt that I couldn’t go, I wouldn’t have a deposit for a house and my credit score is poor.

      how do you stay strong when he is in the children’s birth certificate but I know he would use them against me, maybe try and turn them against me, and I can’t let that happen

      how do you stay strong when the pain you feel is never ending

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      Hazydayz
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