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      Decades of this life have made me bitter, resentful, sad, really low, but I hope that by staying true to my beliefs in virtue, honesty, sincerity, bravery, loyalty, love and respect, I will attract the right person to regain my belief in humanity.

      Feeling low tonight, but I wont give up. I deserve better after all I heard from my husband’s mouth during an argument. It makes me feel dirty to know I am his wife…

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      HI HUn

      Stay strong , dont listen to his words even though i know is hard, yes they have wasted over two decades of our lives, the hardest bit is learning to recover and not lettign them win by filling ourselves with regret and hatred. Take each day as an a new opportunity of better things that can come in your life, do not waste enrgy hating him, u furiuate yourself. I am saying this cause i have lived in this cycle for a while and fight everyday within myself not to let him bring my energy down, i have to tell myself karma will make him face up to his actions, his actions reflect him not u . It wont be easy but slowly u will get there, i have been out a lot longer then u , at begining i felt like u too, so in one way it is good u feel angry , let it out , cry for how u feel, then u will know when the time is right to move on . We do need to release the anger too as we are acknowledging the abuse we expereicned.

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