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I’ve recently spoken to my ex partner, and I told him that he would need to go to court to have access to see his child. He’s decided to kick off and say he wouldn’t be able to afford it. Now he blames me for stopping him seeing his daughter. I don’t understand how that’s my fault?!
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My abuser apparently can’t afford to pay housing costs, seriously unwell, loss of earnings etc.
Judging by recent joint financial statements that I have managed to glimpse, he has plenty of money so I presume that it was all lies designed to manipulate me.
As bananaboat says, stay strong, because he is unlikely to be telling the truth about affording court. -
He’s decided to block me because he’s angry. So I guess that’s that then. I also said to him before he blocked me, that I would be more comfortable him paying through child maintenance rather directly to me. But of course he yet again got mad at me for that.
Geeez I was trying to accommodate him and he’s mad about it.
He said he wanted to arrange seeing his daughter directly through me and he wanted to bring his new partner. I said I wasn’t comfortable with that. He got upset again because he said that he should be allowed.
I’ve feeling mix emotions again. I’m exhausted trying now. He’s blocked me because he’s hasn’t got it on his terms. Erugh!!! -
Hi hope things are better and I agree with all the above, but why cant he see kids with new partner? I wouldn’t accept him imposing that on me. Though currently in a relationship and he doesn’t know as he’d obviously see reason to kick off. But I’m doing nothing wrong. Maybe your kid is younger, mine are older and understand the situation…
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