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    • #41625

      Cos I am 😊. We all are x*x

    • #41632
      Serenity
      Participant

      We certainly are! x

    • #41637

      Here here!! my (detail removed by Moderator) day with no contact and I’ve had the best week 😜 Not a single tear. Xx

    • #41657

      Well done 😊 Keep it up! There’s light at the end of the tunnel you just got to keep going. I love my life now there is not one thing that I would change about it x*x

    • #41738
      Nova
      Participant

      🌼nice post like it …a lot thanks we are strong ladies! Hallelujah to that!

      Cx

    • #41741
      iwillbeok
      Participant

      Queen’s We are the champions came on the car radio the other week and i turned it up and sangg along at the top of my voice! 😁

    • #41804

      I love this ladies! Let’s keep posting positivity because it really helps us all along on in our journeys! We are queens! I can’t wait until I can say I’m 100% on the other side! X*x

    • #41814
      lilaclady
      Participant

      Love this post! So positive!

    • #42354
      Anonymous
      Inactive

      I have managed no contact several months, that feels like a huge achievement, he still consumes too much head space but reading your posts gives me hope that I can also one day be 100% free x

    • #42461

      You will trust me I kissed a guy recently and you know what I b****y well enjoyed it!!!! Lol! Everything is in my control, he knows I can just cut him out at any time I want and he knows it’s nothing serious it’s casual, sometime to spend time with (if I want) someone whose company I can enjoy. I can’t tell you how it felt having a cuddle from a man I MISSED that!

    • #42463
      Nova
      Participant

      Whoop whoop 😀 sounds like your having fun! Great to hear!! PaLa Cx

    • #42464

      I sure am lol. I’m realising I’m very dederiable. EVERYTHING HE SAID WAS RBBUISH! All he wanted to was put me down and now I’m going to feel everything he told me I wasn’t! A******e!

    • #42486
      Serenity
      Participant

      They do talk rubbish, Positive,

      Though I probably did look very strained and haggard by the end, my ex used to put down my appearance even from the beginning, when I was younger and slim and fit, even.

      Since he’s gone, I’ve been flirted with an propositioned a few times, which has made me realise I can’t be completely unattractive, like he made me believe I was.

    • #42491

      He’s the ugly one!!!!!!! Not me!!!! Just like yours!!!! Noone wants them!!!! Idiots!

    • #42492

      Well done to you positiveandlookingahead!!

      this made me smile 😊😊 The post about the kiss. It gives me hope for my future I’m a long way off wanting a man but I do miss a good hug and kissing thank you for making me feel hopeful ❤️❤️

    • #42498

      All i wanted was a cuddle I’ve been needing one ALL week!!!!! It just felt natural and I went with it. He doesn’t see me as damaged goods. Omg I kissed a boy LOL I haven’t felt that passion with someone in such a long time!!!!!! My ex was horrible he didn’t like me showing affection and didn’t like cuddles. I don’t want to spend time with a guy like that. Affection and warmth is so important in a relationship. I definitely will not be sleeping with any of three guys either I’m sticking to who I am and what I believe in. But I’m going to sit back and be treated the way I deserve. Wow this is a smack in his ugly face lol xxxx

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