I just need a place to express feeling sad

[Bunnylover101]

I’ve  processed that I was abused and I know the caring loving person who promised me unconditional support and to take care of me wasn’t the reality.

i know that , at least in part, those promises were love bombing and future faking to manipulate for his own agenda.

I know that will never come from him.

i know I don’t need that specifically from him.

But I made a commitment to him thinking that was the case. And now not only is the illusion shattered, it’s a loss I need to process.

just needed to get it out x

[Firsttimedivorcee]

Aw hun, it is a very difficult thing to accept that the person you loved and the person they are are not the same. But you’ve done very well in expressing that feeling. It will take time, there will be doubt on your side as well. But talk about it. My inbox is al says open

[Happybelle]

Hearing you on this. It’s taking me months to process what’s happened. My boss at work said it might take a while to hit and it’s coming full force at the moment. I’ve decided to just let it flow out….. I find myself vacuuming with tears rolling down my face but it feels good to let that come.

well done for getting it out there x

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