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      Tuppance
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      My family and my solicitor and doctor all support me in my decision to leave. The NHS psychological assessment team won’t support me with treatment for my depression whilst I remain with him. But I am so so scared of my children hating me. Can I carry on without their love? I am so so petrified and lonely.

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      Anonymous
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      Hi tuppance. You know my story. I stayed for the same reason. I didn’t want my daughter to hate me. I realise now that even when she’s horrid (like she’s being now) she will never hate me. I know in time she will see it was the right decision, happy mum = happy kids. I thought I had shielded her from how unhappy I was but she’s so I tune with me she knew anyway. If you’re not happy it will impact on your kids. You deserve to be happy & feel safe! In time they will see the difference in you & will realise it was the right thing to do xx

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