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My husband is emotionally abusive and sometimes slightly physical I have also suffered sexual abuse too but nit very often. I have been told by two counsellors and my GP he is abusive. So why in my head do I still think I am over reacting. I tell myself I have watched too many videos and read too many articles and books on controlling behaviour I have somehow brainwashed myself into believing I am abused when I am just too sensitive.
I have a good job, I am intelligent so why do I feel that I will regret leaving a very toxic marriage.
There is something wrong with him not me.
I know I am wasting my life with him. I am so unhappy. It’s not a good environment for the children. I am a nervous wreck. Tomorrow I want to file for divorce but am already starting to feel so anxious about the final part. I have done all I can. Begged him to come to counselling asked him to move out for a bit but he will jot. I have no choice. -
Sorry your having such a hard time. Its very common to doubt yourself about the abuse and question it. You start your post by listing what you have been subjected to, that’s abuse. The self doubt is just a reaction whilst your trying to make sense of it.
You say your unhappy and a nervous wreck. That alone is enough reason for you to walk away. Please don’t feel you need to justify your actions. You and your children deserve better. The final push as you say is very nerve-wracking and it’s natural to have self doubt all the way through. Trust your instincts and do what you can when you feel its safe to do so. Take care x
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