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      mimiblue
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      HELP. I wanna call my n********t ex so badly. I know this would start the cycle again, I know it would reopen the trauma and bring all my progress to zero. I’ve been away from him for (timeframe removed by Moderator) years now and this would be such a huge step back. But I’m craving to hear his voice SO MUCH.

      I don’t know what to do. What if calling him would actually give me closure? What if I’m just going to realise that I’m strong and I don’t care about him. Does it have to actually be a bad thing me calling him?

    • #176156
      StrongLife
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      He would not have changed.

      I too got caught into this trap of going back /calling to – however he would threaten me  /hurt further

      Is there someone else you can call or if not call a social club ie tennis club, dancing club etc to join. If you are having issues please also consider calling domestic violence counselling line ti help you out as it is normal to want yo do this.

      However they do not change.

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