i was ok :(

[Worrywart]

hi i was doing really well …not thinking about him as much over the last week or so …till today! went to my local shop and he has flooded my mind again, no tears tho, that’s good for me …still my thoughts have led me to believe i want him again ….feeling defeated 🙁 x

[colouringinfairy]

I’m going through the same phase at the moment, though I know deep down I don’t want him so I keep telling myself that on repeat, and telling myself WHY. It’s horrible how it just hits you out of no where when you thought you were doing so well. I literally just keep reminding myself of every time he made me cry and made me anxious and realise how little I have cried and felt anxious since he left as a result. Look for the good in your situation and the future without him, and remember what he put you through. We are all here for you x

[Worrywart]

thank you colouringfairy x

[Yellowflower]

I really don’t feel at a stage where I can advise others as my break up is very new. However I’ve been feeling like this so badly the last few days and then today he did something that reminded me exactly who he is. It’s shown me yes I do love him but that is who he is not the person I fell in love with at the beginning. Slowly his mask slipped and this is him he will never change! Keep thinking of the hurt he caused you keep that at the front of your mind as much as you can. He will never be what you want him to be.

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