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      Nowornever
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      I can’t do it any more , I’m exhausted with it all ! It’s so toxic I have no proof other than all red flags he’s been cheating , but I know what he’s done and all the mind games to make me look crazy. .

       

      He’s very clever , even convinced the adult kids it’s all in my head and no amount of arguing,  he won’t admit anything .  He says he loves me and I need help. I’ve left now but he wants me to go back as I’m the love of his life and we’ve been togeather since we were kids . He crys and begs but I know it will all start up again if I go back . I’m so sad right now mostly because I can’t convince the kids what he’s been doing to me as he’s not doing it to them 😪

       

    • #175346
      Lisa
      Main Moderator

      Hi Nowornever,

      Thank you for sharing with us. I am sorry to hear how difficult things are and how his behaviour has impacted your children as well, it sounds very distressing for you. You are right, if you go back he isn’t going to change. Do you have support from people who understand? Our Live Chat service is still available and there are local domestic abuse services who can often offer ongoing emotional and practical support if you feel it would help.

      Keep posting when you can, we are here for you.

      Best wishes,

      Lisa

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