Hi There can feel your pain , hurt & anger , you totally do not deserve to be treated like garbage as you say and feel , you and your daughter don’t deserve any hurt or pain . The only suggestion I can say to you is if your done and truly done start detachment and make plans to get yourself and your daughter away for good , and stay away . It’s easier said than done I’ve heard myself in you many times and went back too many times only to get treated worse than the previous time , my threats of had enough & calling it quits became a joke in the end . That’s y I say to you stick to your word and don’t let any tactics they use fool you , it never changes , just gets worse & worse . I’m now away the last month , blocked him everywhere I can to avoid contact , please do the same if possible when your away . They are sick dangerous, manipulative individuals who go to any lengths to cause misery & pain . Your daughter deserves better & so do you , be strong and walk away , your worth so much more than what your getting out of this .