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      bluebird28
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      Hi, i am leaving to go to a refuge, is it last minute as i worry i need to avoid him and don`t want him to see me go and would like to drop bags at friends who i can trust ,once i get offered a place how long until i leva any ideas? please and can i take a few as as need so much for sen child

    • #174650
      bluebird28
      Participant

      also should i leave my child`s tablet and phone as its all in his control or can it be used in future, he has his details set up on them and has control

    • #174675
      Cat24
      Participant

      I would leave the phone and tablet and get a cheap one instead. They can access the devices location and if they are the bill payer they cut the contract off to try to get you to return.

      I’m unsure about the rest but I know that women had issues with phones and devices being tracked and controlled and it caused a lot of stress.  Some devices they could also access to try contact the child to ask them questions like where they are , I’m not computer savvy so i dont know how but I’ve seen it be done.

    • #174788
      StrongLife
      Participant

      The refuge had a small amount of storage for luggage only. Not bigger items ie fridges/lounges.

      Please be careful at this time. I left in a hurry and took as little as I could and never went back. After I left he became extremely dangerous with stalking and trying to find me.

    • #174791
      bluebird28
      Participant

      thanks,i will leave the phone and tablet as child is easily influenced by him, i have bags i can carry only,nothing else, i just cant wait to go,im anxious as have some feeling he is upto no good

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