Is this normal

[Headcook]

I hate weekends

First day she in foul mood all day
Next day they rare up at each other screaming shouting foul language slamming doors
Then All spend day in separate rooms
Me and her were still speaking a bit
New day they all nicely nice to each other and I’m clearly the bad guy
Abrupt replies no conversation to me like I’m not here

Is this normal in this senario

I no it’s not normal if you living with non abusive family
What message is being given

Got to move ASAP

Hc

[Iwantmeback]

Perfectly normal scenario in abusive situations. Someone spoiling fir a fight, emotions spillover, then the silent treatment,then makeup period, then spoiling fir a fight all over again. There doesn’t seem to be any let up now does there HC?
There’s no logical reason here,no hidden message, because how abusive people behave has no logic.
Have you had any word from your support worker re getting a flat away from them (refuge accommodation)
It could be that they know they are losing their control over you and that’s why it seems relentless. Keep in touch with us and your support network,
Best wishes IWMB 💞💞

[Headcook]

It’s just so sick all of it

It was clearly her turn from him
He was pent up over her moods and abruptness to him and me really
He was one that blew up as he does being vile her retaliating with her vicious tongue

You just get pulled along with them whether it’s her turn or mine still has all the same triggers for me the same anxiety
And shaking for me The house is toxic !

Yes support worker did say it sounds like they no they loosing control over me as I’m very different with them
Not biting back etc
Although that doesn’t make any difference with him so I can’t win

Support worker has written me a letter for housing and has included my crime number from when I reported this to police this week
Have emailed this to housing in support of my application but they are not processing applications unless you are homeless due to virus

Everything is at a standstill

So affecting every part of me now
I can feel it

Hc

[Headcook]

All blown up again between them
Same disgusting behaviour as yesterday

Seeing a pattern
She is fuelling all this
Face like a slapped behind and the attitude on it is unreal

He is very abusive but she is another type
Smiles to your face goes through all the actions and I believe stabs you from behind

Feeling sick and anxious and it’s not even my problem again today

Mean while she is carrying on without a care such high entitlement about her
Brazen !

He’s shut away
I’m shaking in a corner

And we pay all!! for the privilege of being treated like this by her

Wow what a catch she’s turned out to be

Can’t deal with this much longer

Hc

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