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      peppa-pig
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      It’s been (detail removed by moderator) since we left and I am petrified. I am due again to extend the restraining order but I’m too scared he will show up and am wondering if I should leave our home just in case he knows we’re here and is waiting for the RO to end…
      I have had these dreams where the police call round and ask me to ID his body and when I do I cry that I’m free.. it’s been (detail removed by moderator) and I’m still not free….
      He’s out there and I don’t know where or what he’s doing I shouldn’t care but I do because he could be watching for all I know!
      I’ve tried therapy, I’ve tried anti anxiety pills I just can shake this fear
      What can I do ??

    • #144389
      Scottish Thistle
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      Totally understand where your coming from my (detail removed by moderator) end soon, I know mine wants to speak with me which has petrified me, my (detail removed by moderator).

      Can you put in an application to extend prior to the current one ending?

      I did find counselling helped a bit at the start and understanding the mentality behind my ex’s behaviour so that I was forewarned what to expect coming. I find now exercising and trying to do what makes me happy helps with the fears

      Hopefully you find something to help you

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