I’ve completely lost myself

[Sunsetluv]

I’m really struggling again. My partner and I had an amazing holiday yet when he comes home to work stress he’s back to being irritable.

lately he’s not been getting on with my family as a member of my family was rude to him and hasn’t apologised. I’m getting the brunt of it, yet I have spoken to the family member who is not wanting to apologise even though they were in the wrong.

im stuck in the middle and it’s causing me so much stress. I feel like I don’t know who I am anymore, I don’t know how t be happy anymore. I hate constantly feeling like im the problem. My partner has a lot of work stress as he has his own business but he doesn’t deal well with stress at all he gets angry and irritable. (detail removed by moderator)

he can’t just let things go or leave things be he’s always got to bring things up from the past. I’m tired of getting his stress put on me, he also says I don’t work but then says I mean you don’t graft. He puts my job down because I work in an office environment and he’s out working.

I just feel like everything is drama and everything I do isn’t good enough.

 

Thanks for reading. Love Sunsetluv

[Lisa]

Hi Sunsetluv,

Thank you for your post. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. Its understandable that this is causing you a lot of stress and anxiety. part of domestic abuse is chipping away at you and your self worth. You deserve to be treated with love and respect.

There is no justification for domestic abuse- lots of people suffer from stress and don’t treat their partners in this way.

Best Wishes

Lisa

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