I’ve finally got out

[nevertoolate]

I can’t believe I finally gone and done what I’ve been dreaming of doing for months! (detail removed by moderator) Saturday night by myself and it’s heaven. I can eat what I want and watch what I Want on TV too. Didn’t know it would feel this good. Just wanted to say thank you to everyone on this forum for your strength and words of advice. I know I couldn’t have done it without you all x*x

[KIP.]

Well done and enjoy your freedom. Just be careful and stay safe X

[lilaclady]

Well done you! Giving me hope as I am trying to leave! Enjoy the peace xx

[Confused123]

Well done hun for getting out and posting , it always gives encouragement to those still trying to leave

[EeyoreNoMore]

Yay, fabulous news!

Always happy to hear another survivor has broken free. There will be ups and downs but great news that you can be you again!! Xx

[Racoon]

Congratulations. It’s great to hear such good news. I hope you can now have a very merry Christmas! Xx

[Lightness]

Congratulations and well done!

[Grateful]

Well done!
I’miss just off to start divorce proceedings this morning and I cannot stop crying. I feel I’m tearing my family apart.
A couple of weeks ago I stood in front of that charging bull and told him he was abusive. That brought him up short and he admitted he has been ( though of course he was also “abused”). Since than he has made an effort and has not been hyper-critical etc. and so it feels mean to be seeing a solicitor at a time when he is nice and I’m not living on eggshells and fearful all the time.
I really need a big hug as I want to give all you brave people I read about on this forum.
Stay strong.

[Serenity]

I hope it went ok, Grateful.

Abusers always project blame. According to them, we are abusive if we stand up for ourselves.

Hope today went ok? Did you have support? X

[Serenity]

Well done, Never Too Late x

[Grateful]

Thanks Serenity. Today’s meeting went well -its such a relief to finally make that decision to gto go. I went by myself but my sister kept in contact with me all day which helped, as does the support of this forum.

I expect there will be fireworks in the new year when he realises it’s all over.

I look forward to watching what I want on the TV like nevertoolate does.

[lilaclady]

Hope you’re ok Grateful and sending you lots of strength. Feeling the same as you as I make plans to leave and he’s being nice and am expecting fireworks in the new year too. But I am so glad you are staying true to how you feel and getting a plan in place. Sending you a big hug!!

[nevertoolate]

Thank you all for your congratulations! However I feel like there is worse to come when I file for divorce. Completely understand how you feel Grateful, as my ex is trying to be Mr nice guy too. I consulted a solicitor before I left and she was very understanding. Said his behaviour was controlling and a judge would see that as grounds for unreasonable behaviour. Just waiting for the new year to go back to her and start the process. Am expecting fireworks then too!

[Grateful]

Huge hugs to lilaclady and never too late. STAY strong and remember the fireworks may be extreme and powerful but eventually they disappear. Here’s to a far better 2017. We’re so close to the finish line -just a few more steps.

[jsscollie]

Hugs to everyone.(detail removed by Moderator) So much has happened in the last week but keep going. We can do this x

[Nova]

Keep going your making big steps to a new future, stay safe & strong, know we are with you ..sending you big hugs ladies we all deserve a happier, & free future!
C x

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