Just one of those days

[Wiltedroses678]

Been with my partner (detail removed by moderator), and starting to get sick of him expecting me to clean up after him and the negative comments toward me, then undermining infront of my children, so I’ve told him I’m not doing it anymore since he hardly ever spends time with the family or help out around the house as (detail removed by moderator) And he’s not happy and giving me the silent treatment, this has been happening for years and I usually give in and apologise and things go back to normal, but I just can’t do it anymore I’m loosing the will to care to the point I’m thinking about leaving him, however we have just took on my parents house (detail removed by moderator) what can I do?

[Lisa]

Hi Wiltedroses678,

Thank you for your post and welcome to the forum. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. What you described sounds exhausting to deal with- you deserve to be treated with love and respect. Its understandable that this has been wearing you down and sounds like this is a pattern of behaviour for him.

You mentioned your concerns around the property and wanting to leave- Rights of Women are a voluntary organisation offering free, confidential legal advice on matters including family law, domestic abuse, children and child contact issues. Their Family law advice line can advise around domestic abuse; divorce, finances, cohabitation and property in relationship breakdown; parental responsibility and child arrangements. They are available on 0207 251 6577 (Tues-Thurs 7-9pm and Fri 12-2pm). They also have a line for women in London on 020 76-8 1137 (Mon 10am-12pm and 2-4pm, Tues-Weds 2-4pm, Thurs 10am-12pm and 2-4pm).

Best Wishes

Lisa

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