Just taking a minute in my day

[Eve1]

I’m really sorry I’m not more positive at the moment.

I’m really low, and have a ridiculously strong urge to contact someone I shouldn’t who I’ve spoken about a bit on here. I just need something from someone, some understanding. I’m really failing at the moment, my daughter, at everything I try. It’s tough.

I have a plan to try again at a local ish WA tomorrow. Wish me luck.

xx

[SunshineRainflower]

Hi Eve,

Sorry to hear you’re so low today. I hope you’re ok. We all understand. I am feeling low today too. I’m going to try and do something nice for myself this evening like watch a film, go for a short walk and have some nice dinner. Is there something like that you can try too? Sometimes we just need to get through the day. You’re not failing, you’ve been through a trauma, it’s extremely difficult and painful to deal with.

Stick to no contact, post on here instead, ring the helpline, samaritans, and friends, anything but contacting him as you the cycle of abuse will just start up again and you deserve much, much more than that.

Do your best today, then tomorrow is a new day. 🙂

[Eve1]

Thank you,

I’ve got through the day, and as you say, tomorrow is another day.

xx

[Beenherebefore]

We are all here Eve1. You don’t need to apologise for not being positive. We all have highs and lows but what comforts me on here is that we all pick each other up when we’re happy and have support on here when we’re low.

Well done for getting through the day xx

[lover of no contact]

Hi eve,

Well done for not contacting him. Its so hard I find to resist the urge for contact/connection when things around us are not good and we’re feeling low.

But these feelings will pass. Ride them out without contacting him. You deserve to be Number One in his life, cherished and treated well. He can’t give you this.

You deserve the best.

[Eve1]

Thank you, lovely ladies.

xxxxxxxx

[Nova]

Eve1.. Just sending you huge hugs to let you know I hear you…it’s just rubbish on those days …I do feel for you Hun. Tomorrow is a different day …hoping you feel a bit more loved. 🌸

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