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Hi StrongLife
We would pretty much all, I imagine, had to deal with the lies, the spreading of false narratives about their/our behaviour. After all, they all only wish to destroy us, we cannot have our friends, they seek to break all of our dearest connections, even those with our children. Its all part and parcel of the many facets of the vile abuses.
Noone should know whats gone on in family court though, as the parties invoolved are bound by Family Court Law to not speak to others of the unfolding court process. If you find he has breached this you can report any breaches of this to the court, asking them what you should do and what the consequences of it are.
When you say the ‘lies have stuck’, is that what you are meaning, that people in your community are acting on the lies he told and treating you badly as a result? This is something that can very much be dealt with via a non-molestation order and reporting to the police all instances of it.
You know the truth, you know he’s a liar, and that he will continue to lie always, about his part in this and happily blame you for it all.
warmest wishes
ts
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(detail removed by Moderator) I am a good mum and he has made me out to be vile from what I read (detail removed by Moderator).
It’s that that has stuck. I have not thought of it in a while. I’ve been too busy with other things.
Lies during the marriage and fear of reprisals stopped me doing a lot and having to flee homes etc. I did not feel safe for a while. I feel better now but recently increased security.
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ah, yes, I see. All that shows is that he is a liar. You know your truth, but its good to challenge this for yourself and check out the facts of the abuse, and what he did to you, so you know for sure in yourself that he is just a liar, and others will find that out too. They’ll work it out. Liars think that people don’t realise they are lying, but they do, or at least treat it with suspicion.
warmest wishes
ts
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Hold on to your truth 🙂 he cant destroy that. had similar experience and from that experience i can surely say that even with clear facts that you might have, he will deny all of it. so it doesn’t actually matter what he says about you, its what you know for yourself. at court all you have to do is present what you have as factual evidence. (Detail removed by Moderator) hold on to your truth, what you feel, what you know and what you see. what he says doesnt matter at the end of the day, if he feels the need to lie means he knows what he has done. there is no escape from yourself , never . thats his karma
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