Hi RedPanda2023,
Thank you for your post. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. It can be really hard to navigate child contact with someone that is abusive and not trustworthy. your boundaries are really important and you know whats best for your child.
Rights of Women are a voluntary organisation offering free, confidential legal advice on matters including family law, domestic abuse, children and child contact issues. Their Family law advice line can advise around domestic abuse; divorce, finances, cohabitation and property in relationship breakdown; parental responsibility and child arrangements. They are available on 0207 251 6577 (Tues-Thurs 7-9pm and Fri 12-2pm).
Take care and keep posting
Lisa