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Hi, some of you know my story.. decades with an emotionally abusive, gaslighting, manipulation, bullied me, children and pet dog.
Children and I are zero contact, he has now found a way to contact Me…. it’s been a long time zero contact.
He ignored anything sent to him to do with divorce and is now demanding I meet him to talk. Daring me!
I reported him to the police, again, as I felt really anxious, sick with it if I am honest. I hate he still impacts me, he is so odd, the words he used were very strange and unnerved me.
Police over soon to talk more. I think I did the right thing, police probably won’t do anything but I logged it with them anyhow.❤️
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Hi, no wonder you feel anxious, him contacting you has triggered all those feelings and memories that you have. I think you’ve done the right thing letting the police know, especially if if words concerned you. at least it will be logged & maybe if they have a word with him he will leave you alone? The Suzy Lamplugh trust also offer advice regarding unwanted contact. I spoke to them last week after my therapist recommended it. Have you got people round you to give you some support? I don’t know if you have had it would consider therapy as well to help you emotionally process your experience and give you some support 😊
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Hi Sparklewand, thank you for your kind response.
I have support, legal stage for me. My ex has stuck to his words, he warned me what he would do if I dared divorce him. He has cut off all financial responsibilities and is currently trying to make me and kids homeless… I guess i keep updating solicitors and police. Navigating the legal systems with an autistic mind is painfully difficult for me but I am getting there. This site helps a lot ❤️ -
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