so goodto hear from you both about this! totally what i was thinking.
i don’t have any problem with being evasive with the truth when i don’t know someone well in order to protect us, but it goes beyond, well beyond that when you land up feeling like you’re in the wrong somehow for believing what you’ve been told and caught up in a huge horrible mess which screws with your head. Like the examples you said Suntree.
Some, i’m sure is because of living with it so long you get to looking for it and perhaps also misinterpreting too, but now wondering whether its juwt best to go with how i judge it to be for me, to be safe.
hugs to you both, warmest wishes ks xx