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      Thistle06
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      I’m in the process of planning to leave after (detail removed by moderator) of the power and control wheel. I now sleep in the spare room. My abuser has ignored me for weeks and his children. However cos of lockdown I dont go out much I noticed that my car front (detail removed by moderator) has been scraped just noticable enough my car has sat in the drive for (detail removed by moderator) days facing the garage so it wasnt a passer by. My abuser couldnt wait to help me try and remove it, infact since I’ve mentioned it he has even emptied the washing basket a first (detail removed by moderator). In fact he cant help me enough . He even told me to not be upset. I’m not. Was this him getting back at me as I start to slowly move away? I want to report it to the police so it’s on record. As per usual he acts so concerned I almost think he didnt do it. However I have no through traffic and no real passes by so how else did it get done. It’s enough to notice and cause damage but not over the top . Thoughts please ..

       

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      Anonymous
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      Ohhh, if it were me I’d absolutely report it. Can’t hurt, right? And you know what his tactics are right now with “being a good boy and all”? They are sooo amazingly transparent. Just report it. Because if this kind of thing continues then you have a documented account, blow by blow. If not, then whatever, no harm done. His passive aggressiveness here bugs me, really does. If you have the money, installing little spy cameras are wonderful. Just have to hide them well. They go straight to your phone. And but of course, make sure your phone is with you and hidden at all times and locked. Some of these guys love a mystery and a challenge so you really have to play dumb until out. Smile and nod, etc.

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