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my partner used to have sex with me while i slept , and make me feel bad no wanting it, silent treatment , emotionaly abusive .
i got got out and i’ve met a man that shows nothing but green flags . but i feel nothing , we moved our relationships to the next step and i didn’t feel anything but guilt , anxious and some what hatred for myself i feel awful , and some of me wants to be with my ex but in my head id never allow it to happen , its to late ,
is it me , its my past ring my future or is this person not right . i don’t no how to think or feel and im feeling so so sad and that this poor man is being dragged into my own issues … am i normal !
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Hi, it sounds like you haven’t healed/recovered from your previous abusive relationship. How you are responding reads that you are not yet emotionally ready for a relationship. Did you have counselling when you left your ex? Abuse messes with our heads for a long time after leaving.
You sound very normal, your reactions are also normal after being in an abusive relationship.
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I believe it can get better .I’m in the same place right now .but this aspect still affects me also.i do believe with time and a lot of understanding/ trust on both sides it can get better. I think the realization that not all men are like our exs
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I’m going through the same thing now. I’m struggling to unlearn certain behaviours that kept me safe before. I’m struggling with thinking that he is going to behave like my ex. I feel awful making him go through this with me, even though he only wants to support me. I feel like I’m potentially not ready for a relationship but I do love him and know that he cares very much for me.
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