No contact is tough today

[Anonymous]

I’ve almost done (detail removed by Moderator) months No Contact with my ex partner. I never made it more than (detail removed by Moderator) weeks before this.

But for the last few days, I’ve wanted to make contact. Hoping for a nice reply but that’ll never happen.

I really want to make it to (detail removed by Moderator) months No Contact so I will try not to reach out. I’d be back in another round with him that might last a year and nothing will change. I have been doing well, not really missing him, thinking of a new future. I just need to focus on that and how well I’ve been without him. Wish me luck please.

[Toastandchocolate]

Wishing you all the luck in the world. Stay strong. We are all here with you.

[Anonymous]

Thanks for the support. I’m hanging in there

[Texas]

Hiya

I can totally relate to this.  When I felt like this, I just reminded myself that I went no contact to protect and look after myself and by breaking that, I would be giving the message to that it was OK for me to be treated badly.

Stay strong x

[Sunlight]

I can relate. My ex partner gave me more encouragement than I’d ever received before,.no one is totally bad and that’s why our feelings can go up and down and be so confusing.  But nothing ever matches freedom. Freedom to think for yourself, freedom to have contact with who you choose and also communicate with them without always being judged. Also, freedom to make your own choices, even about what to eat or wear or what to do.  Prisoners can sometimes be treated well, but they are still prisoners. Nothing is worth more than freedom, and once you lose freedom, its a struggle to get it back.  Now you’ve found freedom, hold onto it, it’s the most precious thing you have.  You are strong and have much to look forward to. It will get better. Hang on in there.  We’re all cheering you on.

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