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Hi I haven’t wrote a post in a while I ended things with my ex a while ago it finally calmed down we were actually very civil (well I guess I thought we was) again silly me thinking he might of changed?! He was acting like father of the year couldn’t do enough for me or my kids and I thought this is weird. He would lie and say he’s not looking for a relationship hasn’t got time (like I needed to know that) then suddenly he’s now in a relationship with a woman who’s got (detail removed by Moderator) children? He’s now saying I’m jealous because I was triggered and called him out. I’m more mad at myself for believing his c**p to be honest and I’m so on the fence that this woman could think the sun shines out his arse and I feel like I need to tell her what he’s like! The only thing I’m jealous about is the fact I’m still trying to heal from the abuse from him (that he tells me isn’t bad even though he was arrested) and he’s now got a “new family”. Like how is that fair? Please someone tell me!
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I’m sorry you feel this way I found my ex had a whole other family and planned her baby same time I had my baby with him I was and still am disgusted as she knew about me.some women don’t care so in my opinion I would show no more aggression over that woman and leave it to karma .these abusers are attention seekers and will only use your rage to their advantage
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This! My ex does this too, goes overly nice, says all those things but it’s because he’s got a new woman. Good luck to her. I know you want to tell her stuff but she won’t listen – he’ll b love bombing her and making you out to be the crazy one. Any attempts to talk to her or resolve things with him will feed into that image he’s created. I know you’re hurting (why does it take so long huh!) but remember you’re free and have the ability to be happy again – meanwhile he’ll never be happy regardless of how it looks now x
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Just makes me feel stupid that I got pulled in once again! And then he acts like I’m jealous trying to dismiss everything! I feel sorry for this girl she’s got (detail removed by Moderator) children and he’s going to ruin her eventually it’s very hard not to think about! He’s no longer being nice hes acting like I’m crazy and I should only message about the children. God it makes you so angry!
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Mine has just announced a new girlfriend and gone from nice to angry, we risk exposing their true self to the new girl so push us away. Remember we’re all just supplies to them. Don’t feel stupid. It’s because you’re a good person you wanted to believe him , that’s normal – he’s the unnormal thing here. I know you want to help her but you don’t know for sure if she’ll stay with him and he’s made it so you can’t. All you can do is focus on you and the kids. Remember nothing you do will be good enough for him so sod him, he’ll be unhappy whether you tell him where you are or you don’t! Only talk to him about the kids, you don’t need him for anything else. If he gets worse then seek legal advice to formalise arrangements. You deserve happiness not this. Anger is good too xx
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