Hi Newgirl,
Thank you for posting. That experience must have been very unsettling, it’s horrible if you feel unable to relax in your own home. I hope you managed a better night when he wasn’t there.
If you’re not already it might be worth keeping a diary of his abusive behaviour, it might help you in the future.
If you haven’t already do consider getting in touch with your local domestic abuse service, you might find it very helpful to attend The Freedom Programme.
Keep Posting,
Lisa