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      Newgirl
      Participant

      Morning everyone.
      So (removed by modeator) I went up to bed and after watching some programmes that need no thought I decided to read. Whist doing this I hear him creeping up the stairs! Why on earth does he want to waste his time by spying on me! I mean carry on if you have nothing better to do with your time but I can guarantee it is not interesting viewing!
      I decided I will pop my book down and lay down ready to confront him and ask what he thought he was doing? He then came to bed so I got myself all hyped up ready to do it for nothing! Looking forward to tonight where I can go up and relax as he is at work! I just don’t understand what goes through his mind to spy on me! If I ask him today I can pretty much guess he will say he was sleepwalking! Likely story!

    • #141125
      Lisa
      Main Moderator

      Hi Newgirl,

      Thank you for posting. That experience must have been very unsettling, it’s horrible if you feel unable to relax in your own home. I hope you managed a better night when he wasn’t there.

      If you’re not already it might be worth keeping a diary of his abusive behaviour, it might help you in the future.

      If you haven’t already do consider getting in touch with your local domestic abuse service, you might find it very helpful to attend The Freedom Programme.

      Keep Posting,

      Lisa

    • #141126
      Newgirl
      Participant

      Thank you Lisa im very much enjoying a relaxing evening

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