** on and lost

[Anonymous]

I am in my late (age group removed by Moderator) female who has no children. I was with my ex for nearly (number removed by Moderator) years which the relationship started in my early 20s at uni. I did not realise what he was doing and was slowly cutting my connections with people I was friendly with. Things got progressively throughout the relationship and his family was enabling his behaviour. I have physical health conditions and worked in the (area of employment removed by Moderator). I tried calling the helpline but always had to cut it off. I found no were out and he handed me my medication and told me to end it all. At the time I did because I felt I had no way out. He did all the speaking for me at the hospital and I had to stay mute. I was in for one day and discharged. I rang the police on him and he managed to flip the story and get me sectioned. I was left in clothes for days no one explaining anything and his family saying I have always been mentally unwell which was untrue. I then was admitted to a psych ward and was explained nothing. I was told I have to get a solicitor involved. In result of this I went out my medication from my physical conditions and it cased me to have  seizures. I was told by so called doctor he was not contacted. This was far from the truth when the solicitor was told he was the reason I was in there in the first place. I was discharged with CPSD from everything. He had bail conditions at the time and was still able to:

1. full input on my care which was lies.

2. contact me indirectly.

3. hack my accounts.

I was moved to a refuge where I received no support and was completely forgotten about. i had no therapy or support and was petrified and still am petrified. I keep begging services to help but they keep making false promises and getting me to relive everything again. I do not know what to do anymore I cannot process what happened, been left in debt and struggling but no one wants to help. I am so upset that the police did not take me seriously and he was able to remove all evidence.

[Cherries]

I dont even know what to say.

You need someone fighting in your corner with you. Have you any family members you can contact?

 

It might be worth contacting MIND the mental health charity. They may well be able to put you in touch with an advocate who can help you and will have an understanding of all the red tape surrounding issues.

Worth a try perhaps? X

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