Hi, my husband was (detail removed by Moderator) this afternoon. He said everything I’ve said is made up, I’m mental and it’s all in my head and he loves me but I’ve got another man. He’s cried in front of the kids and I feel like the worst person in the world right now, but I know this is the only way.
This is not your fault. Your husband chooses to behave this way. He will not change. Keep,your sympathy for yourself and your children. I felt dreadful when my husband was arrested but he soon showed his true colours and has been trying to make my life hell ever since X he has shown he cannot take care of you so you have to take care of yourself.
His dad has been on the phone saying I’m a manipulator. They’ve both said that I’m cruel and evil, and i divorce I should have just asked. (I did and he threatened to kill him self) he’s (detail removed by Moderator) out to the children and asked if they’re afraid of him, and said I’ve lied.
How awful. You have been so brave and done exactly the right thing. His appalling behaviour just proves that. Reading (detail removed by Moderator) to your children was extremely emotionally abusive. I hope you and them have good support around you x*x
I’ve phoned women’s aid helpline when I went for a walk. They’ve been great. I’ve told the kids not to worry, and that it’s all going to be ok whatever happens. In the meantime I’m writing everything down and staying upstairs.