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    • #164272
      Door mouse
      Participant

      I don’t know weather or not I am getting the help that I need verbally financially emotionally abused then I’m called needy.

    • #164307
      Needtoclarify
      Participant

      Sorry you’re feeling this way. I think you know in your heart what you want, need and expect and if that isn’t being met there’s the question you need to ask yourself. If you are feeling verbally, financially and emotionally abused, they are your feelings and they matter.

      Sending you a hug and wishing you happiness x

    • #164308
      Twisted Sister
      Participant

      Hello Door mouse

      Thats called gaslighting.

      What you feel is real. If anyone tells you that you are not feeling that but are just being ‘needy’, that’s gaslighting and abusive. If someone can’t accept what you say, then they are not for you, they are not a good match, not your friend, and you deserve better.

      Value yourself, and steer clear of those who can’t have basic respect for you and acceptance of your feelings. You are worthy of these basics, and so much more.

      warmest wishes

      ts

    • #164321
      Door mouse
      Participant

      Thank-you for confirming that all I thought I have stood in the shower and screamed, and I mean really screamed I don’t think anyone can put a price on peace of mind! I spoke to a mediator and ask why they do it I was told power thing.

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