Phone line

[Pineapplepie]

Has anyone called the national domestic abuse phone line.

i need someone to talk too, no one around me knows about my situation. Or so I don’t think.
a friend recently me what she had gone through with her ex and i still couldn’t tell her what im going through.

i feel like im going crazy.

its been (number removed by Moderator) days since he last said things too me, longest it’s been in a long time, I could see him wanting to say things (timeframe removed by Moderator) but (timeframe removed by Moderator) he did it in public and then said he wanted to speak when we got home, I was so nervous when we got home, couldn’t talk and my hand were shaking. My face went so red and my heart pounding. He’s affecting everything in my life and me, I need someone advice

 

[EvenSerpentsShine]

Hi, did you speak to someone?

I didn’t offer a comment here as I have never phoned a helpline.

I do sympathise with you about how very difficult it is to have that first conversation though.

 

[Twisted Sister]

Hello Pineapplepie

I definitely don’t think it’s an easy thing to talk about for most, especially to a stranger, but, I have to say that these particular ‘strangers’ do know the most about this topic, and how very hard it is to speak about. IDK about the National Domestic Abuse Helpline specifically, but I’m thinking they would be women who wouldn’t judge you, and should be patient and understanding, allowing you to take your time and talk as much or as little as you want.

It can also take several run-ups to it! It might feel too much for the first few times and it’s not uncommon to feel overwhelmed and back out, but, take your time, and remember you stay in control of what you say, it’s your help for you and will be led by you depending on what you need. The web chat on here might be useful for you too? Sometimes it’s easier to write than to speak?

Whatever helps you best and feels most comfortable for you.

warmest wishes

ts

[swanlake]

My local women’s centre has a weekly face to face drop in. Though of course it can be hard to talk about things in person too. And the national helpline is 24/7.

Some of my friends have told me about their experiences and I still haven’t told them the horrors of everything that I endured.

I hope that you can get the help that you need for your feelings.

[Pineapplepie]

I tried to call, first time I hung up as I got scared, then called twice and was hold for a long time and was cut off both times.

i tried the web chat but didn’t get very far with that, I got sign posted to go to a local place, but I’m either at work or with my children so not sure how to do that.

i feel very deflated and defeated, was feeling strong even though I’ve felt like I’m going crazy the past few weeks, but He so strong and scares me, i feel down and pathetic

[Marmalade]

Hi Pineapplepie,

I know what you mean about the helpline. I was never able to get through when I tried them. Even in the middle of the night when I thought things would be quieter. Sadly I think they are very busy and understaffed.

Go back to WebChat and see if they can give you any phone numbers for your local DA agency. It’s unrealistic to expect women to turn up at the door but they should have a contact number . Do you have a Citizens Advice locally? They will have a phone number and may be able to signpost you to agencies who can help. Support does vary depending on geographical area but hopefully you can contact someone who can help you.

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