Playing mind games

[Nowornever]

Feeling sad and lost after husband been playing mind games ! He’s tried to make me look mentally ill and crazy

[Lisa]

Hi Nowornever,

Welcome to the forum and thank you for posting. I hope you find the forum a safe and supportive place to be with others who understand.

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Best wishes,

Lisa
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[Nowornever]

Thank you. I will .

[bluebird28]

This is me right now too, i have no idea whats normal, he is being so nice and everyone seems to think i`m the one with the problem

[Nowornever]

Mine is the same . I  acused him of cheating , he just denys everything ! All I get is .. it never happened , I didn’t  say that or it’s all in your head ! Then he started with his mind games and making out I had demetia as when he did something I would go off on one which made my anxiety go through the roof and then I’d get,  but we’re all worried about you and if it’s not dementia your having a psychotic episode !

I even had a mri on brain as soon as that came back normal I got you your having psychotic episode then you need to go back to drs 😫

He swears on everyone’s lives he’s not done anything wrong he as no guilt because he’s not done it , I’m the love of his life and he would never hurt me.  All the years we’ve been togeather he’s never hit me but now if I make him mad enough he as slapped me,  pinned me down and called me names .

Then he’s really sorry and actually crys and says he can’t live without me, but I know what he’s doing to me .There’s so much more gone on and I can’t see it stopping

It’s just awfull

 

 

[Sad and alone]

So sorry you’re dealing with this. Sounds familiar as I have felt very reactive in the past, they wind you up with their nastiness and talking s**t about you, and then when you get angry and shout back they straight away say you’re mental and need help. Easier said than done but be clear in your own mind that you are fine and it’s just a reaction to the abuse. To even feel the need to go for a scan is horrible, that you’ve been made to doubt yourself and feel that way. Take care and keep posting here if it helps. Can make you see it’s not just you and others experiencing the same thing xx

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