I hear you, and I see this now for really young boys having to aspire to be some sort of muscular idol, some unattainable and soul destroying aspiration, a model of perfection, which doesn’t exist.
Crying is strength, to face and manage your emotions, is to be a fully matured human. Its so sad that this, due to online influence is being promoted. Its not only the harms done to women and children through these toxic messages, but building up more young boys to aspire to impossible ideals and foster the toxicity.
I’m glad he has you, to show there’s another way. A way of honesty to others and yourself.
All the emtions that matter in life, especially around Christmas. Much love to all.